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Tuesday, January 19, 2010 

Dating Advice When Dating Younger Women

by Chris Chew

Older men go on dates with younger women for various reasons such as the male ego thingy, loneliness or simply just enjoying the company of younger girls. However, if you are one of those dating younger women, then you must be made aware of the inherent risks and difficulties of such a relationship.
Firstly, do bear in mind that in general, people mentally disapprove an older man dating a much younger girl. You may face resentments from her family and friends. These resentments can be manifested in many forms to outright refusal of accepting your relationship with her and in the case of her parent's objection, you may have quite a turbulent relationship.

So the question to ask is are both of you ready to take this path and weather the storms ahead? This is an important question which both of you must arrive with a satisfying decision and courses of actions to take. The problems and issues can be very mentally and emotionally stressful and may strain the relationship in the future.

Next, men generally have a shorter life expectancy than women and when there is a significant age difference between couples, then this can be a major issue to deal with.

An older man who enters into a relationship with a woman who is much younger than himself must realize the fact that his health may start to decline while she may still be at her prime of life. Therefore before entering into the relationship, the older man should consider whether or not feelings of guilt will trouble him as he starts to become less active because of age. Or worse, will the younger woman may abandon him for someone else who is younger?

At this time, the younger woman may still be interested in going out regularly and enjoying an active lifestyle while older man may become less interested in enjoying nightlife and other activities which the younger woman likes. To be brutally frank, older men should also consider the facts that they may be bed-ridden because of old age related diseases or that they might leave their partners widowed at a relatively young age. So again, this is a very serious issue to consider when dating younger women.

Now, if your woman is prepared to go through the storms of the above two scenarios genuinely out of love for you, then that is wonderful. However, the world is also full of people with unscrupulous intentions. It is for this reason that an older man who is dating a younger girl should proceed with caution to ensure that he does not become involved with a mercenary who is only interested in him merely for his money and wealth.

Therefore the best way to protect yourself is to take the relationship slowly and make sure that true love is the underlying foundation of the relationship. If you have your doubts about your partner's intentions, then it is only prudent to investigate her further or at the very least keep your financial assets secure until the relationship has developed to the point where you no longer have any doubts about her objectives.

Thus an older man who becomes involved in a relationship with a younger woman has many factors to ponder about. He must be aware of the fact that it is likely that his partner will outlive him by many years. He must also be aware of the possibility that the woman may have less than honorable intentions and friends and families from either party could damage the relationship by their fierce disapproval.

If after weighing all these considerations and the both of you decide to carrying on dating, then do go ahead as there are also many successful and happy stories about older men dating younger women and vice versa.

Wishing every success in your relationship.

About the Author
Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at Penis Enlargement Enhancement and Reverse Aging Hgh Human Growth Hormone